Writing a demand letter is not all that difficult. All you have to do is organize your ideas and your arguments… and make sure you know some of the important things we’ll explain in this article.

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Important! You don’t have to try settling your dispute outside of court before sending a demand letter. However, if the other person doesn’t respond to your demand letter, you must consider ways to settle your dispute outside of court, such as negotiation and mediation. You can therefore use your demand letter as an opportunity to invite the other person to settle your dispute outside of court. |
Who can write a demand letter?
You can write one yourself. However, if the dispute you’re involved in is particularly complex or if there’s a lot of money at stake, it might be better to ask a legal professional to do it for you.
When you write a demand letter, you must be honest and as specific as possible. Why? Because everything you write in the letter can be used against you in court. It’s not the time to threaten someone or make up stories!
What should a demand letter say?
The law does not say specifically everything that should be in a demand letter. But the law does say that this kind of demand must be in writing and that verbal notice is not enough.
The law also says that you have to give the other person time to respond to your demand. If you don’t give time, or not enough time, the person will still be entitled to a reasonable amount of time to respond to your demand.
Although the law does not say more about what to include, it’s best to include the following information in your demand letter:
Top of the page
- The date and the address from where the letter is being sent.
- The name and address of the person you are sending the letter to.
- A mention that it is a “demand letter” or “formal notice”.
- How the letter is being sent (“By Bailiff”, “By Registered Mail”, etc.).
- The words “WITHOUT PREJUDICE”. If there is a court case eventually, these words can allow you to, among other things, add information or give more details about certain information you didn’t think of including in the letter.
Body of the letter
A description of the most important facts:
- There’s no point giving a lot of details. A demand letter should generally not be more than a page and a half.
- If you don’t remember the specific dates of the events, you can write “on or around” before the date. For example: “I met with you on or around June 15, 2011.”
What you’re asking the other person for and why you think you have the right to ask for it:
- E.g., “I am putting you on notice to pay me for the cost of repairing my living room window, which your child broke while playing soccer.”
How the other person can respond to your demand:
- E.g., “You can hire someone to repair the window or pay me $250.”
How much time you’re giving the other person to respond to your demand:
- This period must be “reasonable”. This means that it must be realistic and long enough for the person to respond to your demand under the circumstances.
- E.g., “You have 10 business days to repair the window or pay me $250 in cash or by certified cheque made payable to me.”
- “Business days” normally means the days of the week that are not Sundays or holidays.
- Note that you are not required to say that the time is calculated in business days.
Depending on the situation, your suggestions for resolving the dispute outside of court:
- E.g., In order to avoid going to court, I suggest we attend a mediation session on (insert the date).
What you plan to do if the other person doesn’t respond to your demand within the time you mentioned:
- E.g., “If you do not resolve the situation by (X) date, I will hire someone to do the repairs at your expense and will sue you for reimbursement of the costs”.
Bottom of the page
- Your contact information and signature.
- If applicable, the name of the other people you’re sending a copy of the letter to (for example, “cc: Ms. XYZ”).
- If applicable, a list of the documents you’re sending with the demand letter, as “attachments” (by writing, for example, “Att. Copy of the XYZ contract”).
Other general recommendations
- Be polite.
- Write only facts, not assumptions.
- Make reasonable and justified demands.
- Don’t ask for more than what you’re really owed.
- Be careful not to make illegal threats, such as threatening to report a tenant to the immigration department.
- Say, if it’s the case, that you’re open to negotiating after sending the demand letter.
When should a demand letter be sent?
If you’re sending someone a demand letter, it’s because you want to settle the dispute and you are seriously considering taking him to court, agree to give him one last chance, or because you’re required by law to send one. You must therefore send your letter before trying to settle the problem without the other person or before suing that person.
Don’t forget that the law has deadlines for taking someone to court. These deadlines are called “prescription.“ So if you’re getting close to the deadline, make sure to send the demand letter as soon as possible so you’ll have enough time to go to court.
Important! Sending a demand letter does not stop prescription from running.
However, if there is a possibility of settling the dispute outside of court (for example, by negotiation or mediation), you can make an agreement in writing with that person to suspend the prescription. The maximum amount of time you can suspend prescription is six months.
How should a demand letter be sent?
You can choose any method to send your letter, but make sure you can prove that the other person received it. Here are a few options:
- by bailiff
- by registered mail
- by email if you can get proof that it was received
You can also deliver it in person to the person you’re putting in default. If you do this, ask that person to sign to confirm he received it or have a witness present. However, this method is not the best because the person might refuse to sign and proof by witness is more difficult to make.
In any case, make sure you keep a copy of the demand letter and proof that it was received!
Demand letter model
The Quebec government provides an example of a demand letter, which they call a formal notice.